2021.12.08 15:00 ILikeJuicyApples Maybe.

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2021.12.08 15:00 throwaway_Radvice1 I (20M) messed up with a girl (20F) tell me what I should do

Here's the story (some personal details missing)
Background: Me and her (lets call her N) are pretty good friends, we've been talking for a bit and we tell each other pretty much everything.
There's a guy (lets call him A) who I completely cut off and N knows that, I dislike him, he's done a lot of shitty and snakey things, but importantly to provide context here he pretty much uninvited me from his birthday along with other shitty stuff he has done. Also when he is at places I dont get invited/I dont go since I dislike him.
Further context about A: I act civil in public with him, meaning that he knows I dislike him but in public I act civil since we have mutual friends and I dont want to make it weird. by civil I mean if the group of friends want to go eat somewhere and we are together and im driving I will take him along (to not create a scene etc) and A recently went through a bad breakup (his gf broke up with him and got engaged 4 days later), though he might deserve that, he went to me to talk about it since he was very sad, and I made it clear to him that I still dislike him etc but I talked to him very briefly because of petty.
What happened: its my 20th birthday, N was out the whole day doing uni related stuff then she calls me as im heading home (I was out with some people for my birthday) and she tells me she's with her friend and A and they wanted me to go to a restaurant with them for my birthday. of course knowing that she knows everything between us I didnt understand what she meant by A being there because it doesnt make sense that she would invite him unless she wanted to mock me or it was a joke. so I asked which A multiple times because it really didnt make sense. then she confirms its the A which I hate, who she decided to invite to my birthday.
The first call was in her car on speaker and people heard. I called her after and made sure no one was listening, I was very hurt and asked her why she would think this was a good idea, to invite someone who I told her multiple times I disliked to my birthday. It really didnt make sense why she would do this and I was really hurt so I said things like "that ruined my day" "why would you do this" etc. the whole situation really caught me off guard and hurt me, having someone I care about do this to me on my birthday.
after that I called multiple times and she didnt answer (maybe like 5 times) because I wanted to know why she would do this because it didnt make any sense unless she actually wanted to ruin my day which doesnt make sense. she later called me and told me she didnt know that me and him were still on bad terms (even though I told her) and that she was trying to be nice.
We later texted because she didnt want to call, it basically went like me asking her "why would you do me so dirty and invite the one person I told you I dont like" and her saying stuff like "I was trying to be a good friend" along with some insults from her but she was mad so I let it slide. she also said I yelled at her which I didnt, but I was hurt so maybe it sounded like I was yelling.
She then blocks me mid conversation (ON MY BIRTHDAY) that hurt me and it didnt make sense again, so I went to her friend to message her, which wasn't much help because N was very pissed.
it didnt make much sense to me, from my end she did me wrong and now she blocked me.
I ended up getting unblocked 1-2 days after getting blocked when I briefly saw her in a parking lot (she didnt want to talk to me) and had a brief discussion which clarified a lot. so I sent an apology message to her friend which made her unblock me. (not forgive just unblock because she was willing to forgive)
Now here's her perspective (with info I didnt know at the time when she asked me to hang out with her and A):
From her POV here are the events, she had a very busy day with our School's club which A and her other (F 20) friend is a member of, then she goes to the mall (where the restaurant she wanted to meet at is located) to get me a gift, A asks to drive her there since she was tired so A was driving N and her friend. N buys me a gift then A (who I later found out told her that me and him were on good terms) and N's friend say they should invite me to go to the restaurant. N calls me with pure intentions trying to do something nice and to give me the gift, I get mad at her and talk to her in a rude way.
It seems like A was trying to get a reaction by forcing himself there by staying with them and driving N and her friend etc, because any normal person wouldn't have stayed for someone who they know very well hates them's birthday. Also N later told me that she assumed that me and him were good because he was helping her find me a good gift, and told her we were good. and because she saw us talk on campus (which I did briefly because of his breakup) and I told her but regardless this is pretty much the situation.
I did N very very wrong by reacting that way to her trying to do something nice on my birthday, I shouldn't have reacted like that to her and it hurt her a lot. we pretty much haven't talked for over a week now and when I message her I get left on read. also I believe A is talking to her and fuelling her against me (not something he wouldn't do, as mentioned he is a snake)
I have apologized to N multiple times over text sincerely, because when she explained her side I really felt bad, because I do genuinely care about N and the situation shouldn't have escalated like this and could've been ended now and then if we had proper communication, and to make things worse, she said she apologized when I called her and said she could tell them I was busy and me and her could do something without them. I didnt hear her say that though, probably because of how mad I was about the whole situation. that made it even worse for me because had I heard her say that the situation would have ended right there and then.
N is a nice person who I like a lot, but I did her very dirty on this situation and I've tried ti apologize a lot and now im not too sure what to do. I recently sent her a long message explaining to her how im sorry and what caused me to react that way, she responded very rude and dry pretty much as if she doesnt care.
I have been advised to give her space and not to message her again for a while, but I really wanted to call her and actually apologize or atleast tell her what happened, but she wouldn't call or meet me, and now wont text. im worried if I stop texting A and other snakes will fuel her against me more and instigate.
I dont really know what I should do, N means a lot to me and I did her very dirty, and she didnt deserve this.
Any advice is really appreciated, thank you.
I fucked up and over reacted to someone wrongfully inviting someone who I told them I hated to my birthday and now we dont talk and she's mad at me.

Reposted for actual helpful advice that I can use
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2021.12.08 15:00 renovo96 Has anybody gone back to a relationship that was toxic after years of being apart?

I mean toxic like lying, cheating (even if it was one time), constantly breaking up and getting back together? How did that turn out for you guys the second time?
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2021.12.08 15:00 Monolith999 Decent roller

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2021.12.08 15:00 N0n__Ficti0n Pico8 with ArkOS Rg351M - Missing Files?

Hey, I have been loading various ports and games utilizing tutorials online from users like RetroGameCorps and am having trouble getting pico8 to work. I have purchased and installed the rasberrypi version and placed the correct files into my easyroms pico8 folder. However within the original folder that was partitioned by ArkOS there is only a Carts folder, .SH file, and Controller file, during the tutorial video it appears there should be multiple folders with various files excluding the ones that require transferring from pico8 site. Is there anyway to get these files, or will I have to reinstall ArkOS, also am I able to reinstall ArkOS without having to remove all my games etc. I have created the splor file and attempted to make the pico8 system visible in rg351 settings, but there is no pico8 listed.
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2021.12.08 15:00 Still-Werewolf-2634 XcelDefi

@XcelDefi I believe in the team and the idea! Really a very interesting and promising project that can seriously shoot in the future. I proposed this project, because I saw in it a good potential. #xceldefi #xcelswap #BSC #XLD #DeFi #XcelLab #DEX #crypto #BinanceSmartChain
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2021.12.08 15:00 artbyash Ubisoft's initial NFT plans are illogical

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2021.12.08 15:00 justherefornbastream Did Noho Hank read a book by Paul Freedman?

I might be crazy but I think Hank has mentioned that he read a book by Paul Freedman but I can’t find any information about that scene or the boom itself online. Help would be greatly appreciated !
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2021.12.08 15:00 Aleck2342 Is it dumb for me to be genuinely sad for not being able to play a game?

The other day I (22) was talking with a friend about not being able to play a certain game and how it made me feel really bad and he basically told me it was immature and I should grow up. It obviously isn't the end of the world, but it got me thinking, should I just stop caring about video games as I grow older?
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2021.12.08 15:00 throw-ing-away- Financial Stress

Throwaway, as we are both fairly active on Reddit
I am extremely stressed out about my (27 F) & my husband’s (29 M) financial situation & am looking for advice. We’ve been married for about 6 months, but dated for 5 years without any major issues.
Since the pandemic, my husband has not worked full-time. For a while he was receiving unemployment, but that has since ended. He has worked a part time/ contract role, but the hours are very inconsistent. In the summer he was working close to 30 hours, which was great! Now, he is lucky to have 1 shift a week.
I feel an immense amount of pressure to keep us afloat. He has generally been able to provide his half of the rent, but I am handling all other expenses (health/car insurance, groceries, utilities, vet expenses, car payments etc). I have a decent job & make a solid income for 1 person, but it’s tough to support two on it.
We want to buy a home, but I am the only person able to save for it, and it’s a very small amount due to our other expenses.
I’ve gently brought up him getting a full time job multiple times & he always agrees, says that he is going to be applying, but never does. He is very helpful around the house & probably does 70% of chores, which take 1-2 hours out of his day. Other than that, he spends all day playing video games. He has made it really clear that a 9-5 isn’t for him, and I think that’s totally ok! I want him to find something he finds fulfilling.
I’ve attempted to help him find a therapist or a doctor to help with depression, as I do think that’s a huge factor in this. He isn’t interested in getting help.
Just today, I noticed an alert on our joint account & it ended up in me reviewing some purchases. I asked him about one from a company I didn’t recognize & he was visibly upset that I interrupted his video game to show him (literally for 30 seconds on a pausible game). He yelled at me and said he knew he needed to make more money - I explained that wasn’t even what I was talking about. I also said I don’t want him to feel like he has to make more money, but trying to find a job he enjoys, even if it’s minimum wage, would be really helpful. I don’t need him to equally contribute, but I would really appreciate him being able to help me with finances a bit more.
He has said that I am overly stressed about our financial situation, but I’ve explained I think that might be because I feel alone in the management of it & that I need my partner to help.
I don’t know how to encourage him to help without making him mad. We are newly married and I’m really afraid of what my life will end up like if I don’t start making more money & he isn’t willing to work full time.
I have had to put a hold on a lot of things I care about because of this financial stress. I haven’t been able to go on trips with friends (though he is planning one with his), I haven’t been able to afford the final class for my graduate degree, or do activities that I enjoy. I am starting to resent him for this, but I genuinely feel guilty about that emotion.
Has anyone been in a similar situation and found a solution to make this work?
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2021.12.08 15:00 ParticularScratch551 Wayne Shorter

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2021.12.08 15:00 Prize_Pop7171 Hey guys, I just joined this community, I tell you my story.

I'm 18 years old, I started fapping at 10. For the first years, I didn't use so much porn, but I noticed that last 2 years maybe my porn use was increasing a lot.
I realized I need to stop 1 month and a half ago, I was going to have my first sexual experience with a woman and... My dick betrayed me, I didn't get a boner. The next day we tried again, and again my dick was useless. I did managed to have sex in the 3rd trial, and then one more time but I think my dick could've been harder (also I cummed in less than 10 min second time I had sex)
There r plenty of probabilities that my no erection was not 100% due to porn, and instead more because of the anxiety of this experience.
Nevertheless, I'm sure that if I spent less time watching porn and fapping, things would have gone better.
That's why a month after that, I read the famous book "Your brain on porn" and I got astounded by how damaging porn is for our brains.
After starting the book, I stopped fapping for 6 days and watching porn for 11 days (my personal record after a couple of months I think) and I noticed my boners were increasing in both quality and quantity; but once I finished the book, it's like I forgot about everything I learnt about porn and its effects on the brain and I already returned to multiple faps a day watching porn.
Today, after fapping and watching porn, I realized in messing things up again, so I decided to give a trial to this community and start journaling my progress on this.
Sorry if my English is not perfect, I'm not native English speaker 🙏
Wish me success! 🙌
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2021.12.08 15:00 AzimuthCore 1.1.4 - Bug Fixes & Split Update

It's the end of the year, and things are a little hectic! Like other developers, we are dealing with year-end time constraints and concerns about app stability and approval times. As a result, Stellar 1.1.4 has been split into 2 updates.
Schedule 1.1.4 Expected Release Date - Monday December 13, 2021
1.1.5 Release Date - January 2022.
1.1.4 Changelog New Features

Quality of Life
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2021.12.08 15:00 cosmicexy Reshiram raid asap

Accepting the first 5 to add 6373 3546 4992
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2021.12.08 15:00 SupremeCakeAvakin does anyone have iron nuggets or stone they wanna give away i could use some for DIY’s

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2021.12.08 15:00 burtzev On the Origins of Neoliberalism | Counterpunch

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2021.12.08 15:00 stihlboy Laptop for scientific computing/machine learning research

Total budget (in local currency) and country of purchase. Please do not use USD unless purchasing in the US:

Are you open to refurbs/used?
How would you prioritize form factor (ultrabook, 2-in-1, etc.), build quality, performance, and battery life?
- Performance by far, then battery then build. Don't care if the form factor is a little on the larger side. 
How important is weight and thinness to you?
- Less important (as long as its not huge) 
Do you have a preferred screen size? If indifferent, put N/A.
- Ideally at least 14", don't really care though 
Are you doing any CAD/video editing/photo editing/gaming? List which programs/games you desire to run.
- Heavy numerical computing, particularly quite RAM heavy. Ideally, at least 16GB RAM (with the ability to upgrade eventually to 32GB+). GPU isn't necessary, but the ability to use an eGPU (for deep learning mainly rather than gaming) would also be desirable. 
If you're gaming, do you have certain games you want to play? At what settings and FPS do you want?
- Don't care about gaming Any specific requirements such as good keyboard, reliable build quality, touch-screen, finger-print reader, optical drive or good input devices (keyboard/touchpad)? 
Thanks in advance for the suggestions!
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