2021.12.08 15:05 Minute-Stand1985 ‼️Giving away 1x Inventor NFT💵🔥Check comments section for additional details👇💥
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2021.12.08 15:05 throwaway19930001 My GF might cheat on me.
My girlfriend (21F) and I (28M) have been dating for about 8 months now. The relationship has felt like longer than that because we’ve spent almost every day together for about 7 months now. I love this girl and care about her very deeply already. She has had a very tough upbringing that I won’t go into too much detail about, but some things I feel are relevant are that she is a survivor of rape (perpetrated by an ex from 4 year relationship that started in high school), and she has what I believe to be a sex addiction (and she agrees, pending a diagnosis).
Our relationship is very passionate and I believe we have become co-dependent to some degree. We spend every free moment together and have sex at least once, if not 2-3 times every day. She almost always initiates the sex (and I am not being forced into it, my sex drive is just much lower, but it always feels great for both of us).
Yesterday I did something that I am not at all proud of. I have been trying to get her to go to therapy to deal with her obvious PTSD from the things that have happened throughout her youth, and she has agreed, but money was the main issue. Finally, she was able to get referred through her doctor for government-covered therapy, which she started yesterday. My apartment does not have a separate room and she was over during it (virtual session), so I went to the bed and put on headphones to give her privacy. During the session I got curious and took off a headphone to hear her coincidentally speaking about me and our relationship. She said something to the effect of "he is amazing and I'm so grateful to have him/he's improved my life so much. But I have terrible impulse control and I'm worried i'm going to cheat on him. I think if we didn't spend so much time together I might have done it already."
Throughout the relationship she has said/done some things that gave me this feeling before hearing her say it. She is very sexually forward and very attractive. She told me that she would basically just walk up to a guy at a bar or message a guy on tinder and ask if they "want to fuck" and she's never really been turned down. This tactic worked with over 50 different guys (her estimate). She has also told me that she's cheated before, but during an inconsequential relationship that lasted a couple months and the guy didn't find out, so "no harm done" (she was also only 18 during this relationship). I have never been cheated on, but I know people that have and I have read multiple posts on here detailing those situations and I've told her that it would destroy me if someone I loved cheated on me. We agreed that if anything like that happened, the only chance at reconciliation would be if we told each other the whole truth of what happened immediately. She agreed, but I'm worried she would keep it a secret to avoid losing me. I really believe her when she says I'm the "best thing that's ever happened to her". I think she would take the "no harm done" approach if something like this ever happened and just take it to her grave.
I am incredibly torn. I feel terrible for invading her privacy like that, I should never have heard her say what she said. I also love her so deeply and care about her so much. She's been through the ringer and really trying to improve herself. If anything, her mentioning that to her therapist is evidence of wanting to tackle this issue and deal with it. But it's just been eating away at me ever since I heard her say it. What if we aren't together all the time? What if an attractive guy hits on her at work/while she's out and she's having a particularly bad day and does something? What if on top of that, my sex drive drops more and I just don't want to have sex every day? I can't be with her all the time like it's been for the past 7 months. Even now she went to a doctor appointment and wants to head back to her place to do some errands before meeting me later, and my mind is filled with anxiety and what-ifs. I don't want to be a jealous/controlling boyfriend, but I can feel myself becoming that. I know the first response a lot of people give here is "just dump her", but it really is more complicated than that, and the thought of putting her through a breakup when her life is just now improving kills me. Any thoughtful advice would be appreciated. Sorry for the long ass post.
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2021.12.08 15:05 tmoneymr2 Where does my Zen Master fall in my otherwise 100% Motiv arsenal?
Recently acquired a Global 900 Zen Master from a college bowler who said the roll just didn't match up with his axis. I am going this weekend to have it plugged, fitted, and drilled. However I am not at all familiar with the Storm/Global/Roto lineup other than I know this ball is a Symmetrical Solid. My arsenal current consists of a Motiv Ascent Solid, Motiv Venom Shock, Motiv Fatal Venom, Motiv Jackal Ghost. Can anybody familiar with either or both companies help me figure out 1. Where the Zen Master lands within my arsenal for which conditions and 2. Any advice on what my layout should be with it?
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2021.12.08 15:05 indianladka World's Only Floating Post Office, Srinagar, India
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2021.12.08 15:05 PedroGamerPlayz This'll be interesting to write
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2021.12.08 15:05 WiseCucumber7409 [H] Random Steam Keys [Games from $7!] ($0.30 for each)
2021.12.08 15:05 whomst_calls_so_loud Why is this intro the best part of any emo song?
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2021.12.08 15:05 _Peaceful_Hawk Pet Array drives me crazy, pls help :/
I play Swordsman Guardian Savior 2. I switched Class from Archer Windtalker to Swordie, so i don't have everything perfectly atm. But I kinda loose the view for it. First I wanna list my pets, bcs they (and especially the support array) give me headaches.
Pets: Major Array Angel (1 red star) lvl 160 Armored Bear (2 red stars) lvl 160 Son of Devil (2 red stars, linked w Flamewielder) lvl 160
Support Array: 1. Gale (3 purple stars) 2. Cyclone (1 red star) 3. Sweet Fur (4 purple stars) 4. Flamewielder (3 purple stars) 5. Master Panda (3 purple stars) 6. Gem Golem (3 purple stars)
Is there something I could improve or do better?
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2021.12.08 15:05 TechnoGamerOff this is my favorite greentext
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2021.12.08 15:05 AwJarjura ZEKROM 2125 2667 2074
2021.12.08 15:05 chicken-fried-rice0 Where can you donate plasma for money?
2021.12.08 15:05 foofuufou I want to make bonds with people but i can't, should i give up?
I'm an 18 y/o autistic male who is completely lonely and is starting to feel the effects of being alone. My one goal in life is to get married and have kids, many many kids. However standard advice i've been given is to make friends and intimate emotional relationships and to find people doing things you like. The problem is I don't know how to make friends after not having one for 6 years straight. My best friend is dead and there's nothing i can do to change that. I can't make emotional bonds with people if they make fun of me and abuse me like they did in high school. I don't have any hobbies and i don't enjoy anything anymore due to my anhedonia (not officially diagnosed). At this point i'm just considering giving up and living my life celibate and alone by myself or getting an arranged marriage or something like that. Any thoughts?
Tl;dr I'm an autistic 18 y/o male who is confused on whether to form relationships or give up
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2021.12.08 15:05 lss_bvt_and_01 LssTest-ImagePost-36727
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2021.12.08 15:05 worldnewsbot Japanese scientists develop glowing masks to detect coronavirus
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2021.12.08 15:05 mikee_mouse New location on Instagram 
Hi, this might've been asked in the past but there might've been updates this year on how to successfully add a new location on Instagram? Especially if it's for a business that has multiple locations. I've tried the method of adding a new place via the "Check In" section of Facebook but it's not working. Hope someone can share how :)
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2021.12.08 15:05 best-music-for-ever Tiesto & Karol G - Don't Be Shy / BICHOTA remix
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2021.12.08 15:05 conrick Ken Block's Trophy Truck, Baja1000
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2021.12.08 15:05 iamdigitalman Someone needs to log into the ATM so I can use it.
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2021.12.08 15:05 BartPRO1000000 How. Just how. I hate this trophy range, maybe I'm just too bad. He goes mega knight and ebarbs start of the game. And I can't change the nickname, i set it 5 years ago.
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2021.12.08 15:05 SealedBox What would you never forgive someone?
2021.12.08 15:05 TomParco [Warzone] the mg42 is completely broken
2021.12.08 15:05 HakhanLaf Cross trade Rhydon and Dusclops (BDSP)
2021.12.08 15:05 Western-Coffee Just came here to say if you’re in quick need of wrapping paper, the Trader Joe’s bags work surprisingly well. 😂🎁
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2021.12.08 15:05 Blank214269 Landing Spots and Hypothetical Trades for the Pacers Stars
So Indiana is hitting the reset button and I was curious who you guys think could trade for one of Domantas Sabonis, Myles Turner, or Caris LeVert. And drop your hypothetical trades.
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2021.12.08 15:05 Tsuki-04 Story Hint by Genshin Intel